{"id":4099,"date":"2016-09-12T15:17:21","date_gmt":"2016-09-12T08:17:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/iit.payap.ac.th\/?page_id=4099"},"modified":"2016-09-12T15:17:21","modified_gmt":"2016-09-12T08:17:21","slug":"28-rape","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/iit.payap.ac.th\/?page_id=4099","title":{"rendered":"28. Rape"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"entry-content\">\n<p>The following are suggestions for what to do when confronted with acquaintance rape<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>STAY CALM<\/li>\n<li>Turn the inner voice into a strong voice. TRUST YOUR FEELINGS.<\/li>\n<li>Appraise your situation, then ACT QUICKLY. Evaluate how much danger you\u2019re in, and act accordingly as soon as possible.<\/li>\n<li>Try to GET AWAY<\/li>\n<li>YELL FOR HELP<\/li>\n<li>When necessary, ACT FORCAREFULLY. Realize that your fighting back might also cause him to become violent.<\/li>\n<li>BUY TIME WITH TALK. Stall your attacker with conversation. Try flattery. When s\/he thinks he no longer needs to use force, s\/he may ease up on his guard. That\u2019s a good time to make a break for the door.<\/li>\n<li>DESTROY THE IDEA OF A \u201cSEDUCTION\u201d. Tell your attacker that you have a sexual transmitted disease, have your period, you\u2019re pregnant. Do physical things that are turn off: urinate on the floor, pick your nose, belch, pass gas, vomit.<\/li>\n<li>REMEMBER THAT GIVING IN IS NOT CONSENT!!!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Giving in is not something to be ashamed of. You may be threatened. S\/he may be physically violent. S\/he may terrify you that you cannot respond effectively. Going along with him\/her may be the only smart thing to do. Giving in may be a survival strategy.<\/p>\n<p>Do not berate yourself that you \u201clet\u201d the rape happen. A rape-threatening situation is also a life-threatening situation. Your only responsibility as a victim is to yourself. You do not need to sustain injury or death to \u201cprove\u201d you were raped. Stay alive.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sexual Assertiveness Questionnaire &amp; Date Rape Prevention<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Date Rape Prevention<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The following is a questionnaire on sexual assertiveness as well as tips for preventing date rape.<\/p>\n<p><strong>All people have the right to:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Make their own decision regarding intercourse or other sexual activity regardless of their partner\u2019s wishes.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>[ ] Never<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Sometimes<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Always<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li>Use or not use birth control regardless of their partner\u2019s wishes.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Never<\/p>\n<p>[ ] Sometimes<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Always<\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li>Tell their partner when they want to make love.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Never<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Sometimes<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Always<\/p>\n<ol start=\"4\">\n<li>Tell their partner they don\u2019t want to make love<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Never<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Sometimes<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Always<\/p>\n<ol start=\"5\">\n<li>Tell their partner they won\u2019t have intercourse without birth control.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Never<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Sometimes<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Always<\/p>\n<ol start=\"6\">\n<li>Tell their partner they want to make love differently.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Never<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Sometimes<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Always<\/p>\n<ol start=\"7\">\n<li>Masturbate to orgasm<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Never<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Sometimes<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Always<\/p>\n<ol start=\"8\">\n<li>Tell their partner they are being too rough.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Never<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Sometimes<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Always<\/p>\n<ol start=\"9\">\n<li>Tell their partner they want to be hugged or cuddled without sex.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Never<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Sometimes<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Always<\/p>\n<ol start=\"10\">\n<li>Tell their relative they\u2019re uncomfortable being hugged or kissed in certain ways.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Never<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Sometimes<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Always<\/p>\n<ol start=\"11\">\n<li>Ask their partner if they have been examined for S.T.D.\u2019s<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Never<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Sometimes<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Always<\/p>\n<ol start=\"12\">\n<li>Stop foreplay at any time, including the point of intercourse.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Never<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Sometimes<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Always<\/p>\n<ol start=\"13\">\n<li>Refuse to have intercourse even though they may have had sex with their partner before enjoyed it.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Never<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Sometimes<\/p>\n<p>[ ]\u00a0Always<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The following are suggestions for what to do when confronted with acquaintance rape STAY CALM Turn the inner voice into a strong voice. 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